February 12, 2014

Welcome, Welcome!!

We'll be under a state of chronic construction here at our "Inspirational Oasis" (Kind of like Route 84)!
I will be adding quotes, poems and stories as time allows.In the comments sections I have tried to add some biographical information about the person who gave the quote, if you'd like to add more information or find that something needs correcting please don't hesitate to add comments.
I just discovered how to add the Index! How exciting! This is so much easier than flipping through pages trying to find things :)
Oh, one more thing about the index, if you see a post that you think should be under a specific topic and I didn't put it there, please let me know, I will gladly add it to that topic.

I started a forum that I thought might be a good place for discussions to be held and for you to help contribute to this site as well.
An Inspirational Oasis Forum

September 17, 2013

The Value Necklace

By Sister Kathleen Dempsey (who graciously let me post this on my blog - Thank you!)

The necklace I wear cannot be seen,
it hangs around my heart.

The white gold chain, shines each day
by impressions the Spirit imparts.

By choice to act upon these prompts,
good works are surely done.

The chain holds now two unseen gems
fastened by the Holy One.

Integrity keeps individual worth in bloom
as I progress throughout the day.

Personal knowledge of the Church that's true
keeps the Enemy far away.

Come Follow Me, Come Unto Christ
by faith the path will be,

But if I fall, repentance is,
the gift that sets me free.

White purity of mind and heart have,
kept me from deep sin.

My virtue is the sacred place,
my soul has been wrapped in.

I know I am his daughter dear,
when doubts begin to grow.

Divine nature is the torch that lights
inside my heart to glow.

The sweet peace of temple experience
keeps me going back for more.

The values learned in Young Woman
lead me safely to its door.

Now on my knees at days long end
scriptures have been read.

With gratitude for all this help
its time to rest my head.

Oh, but wait! I can't forget THIS,
in keeping my chain bright.

Family and Prophet, Bishop and Saints
who pray for me at night.

Standing in Holy Places today
filled my chain with gems that shine.

Standards high, my Light not hid
shown forth for all mankind.

With all these gems I go to sleep,
they do not weigh me down.

For Father will, one bright judgement day,
place them lovingly into my crown.

The Lorax

A tree falls the way it leans. Be careful which way you lean. 

Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot, nothing is going to get better. It’s not.

 - Dr. Seuss

July 18, 2011

From Dream to Reality

If you think it, it becomes a dream.
If you write it down, it becomes a plan.
If you tell someone, it becomes a commitment!

July 17, 2011


Neal A. Maxwell
All These Things Shall Give Thee Experience

"As one who suffered much in a concentration camp, Victor Frankl obseved that the one freedom that conditions cannot take from us is our freedom to form a healthy attitude toward those very conditions, grim as those may sometimes be."

Be the House.....

C.S. Lewis - Mere Christianity, pg 174

"Imagine yourself as a living house. God comes in to rebuild that house. At first, perhaps, you can understand what He is doing. He is getting the drains right and stopping the leaks in the roof and so on: you knew those jobs needed doing and so you are not surprised. But presently, He starts knocking the house about in a way that hurts abominably and does not seem to make sense. What on earth is He up to? The explanation is that He is building quite a different house from the one you thought of  --- throwing out a new wing here, putting on an extra floor there, running up towers, making courtyards. You thought you were going to be made into a decent little cottage: but He is building a palace."

God's Love For Us!

"The soul is like a violin string: it makes music only when it is stretched. God will tutor us by trying us because He loves us, not because of indifference!"

Eric Hoffer


Neal A. Maxwell
All These Things Shall Give Thee Experience

The myopic and despairing soul-cry and question, "If there is a God, why does He permit suffering?" reflects a basic failure to understand the very nature of life with its components of chastening and suffering. And as for that question, it is not difficult to imagine who originated it, however understandably sincere some are who now raise it. The question strikes at the heart of Father's plan, because it comes from him who rejected that plan!.....Thus the relentless love of our Father in heaven is such that in Hisomniscience, He will not allow the cutting short some of the brief experiences we are having here. To do so would be to deprive us of everlasting experiences and great joy there. What else would an omniscient and loving Father do, even if we plead otherwise? He must at times say no.
Furthermore, since there was no exemption from suffering for Christ, how can there be one for us? Do we really want immunity from adversity? Especially when certain kinds of suffering can aid our growth in this life? To deprive ourselves of those experiences, much as we might momentarily like to, would be to deprive ourselves of the outcomes over which we shouted with anticipated joy when this life's experiences were explained to us so long ago, in the world before we came here.

We Are Not Our Own.....

Neal A. Maxwell
All These Things Shall Give Thee Experience

There is little doubt, for instance, but that a goodly portion of our pride proceeds from some assuptions we make about ourselves and our lives - assumptions that are at first soothing but very wrong. We think, for instance, that we "own" ourselves. It is perfectly true that our individual identity is guaranteed, that we are agents for ourselves, and so forth - but this truth, when it is torn away from otherrealities, gives us a very lopsided view of things. Without the ransoming atonement of the Savior, we would be stranded soulds, doomed to die with no hope of the resurrection or of individual immortality. We were literally purchased by Jesus. (Acts 20:28)

Quite true, we do not yet have to acknowledge that reality, though someday we will. Nor are we now even forced to follow the conditions that the Purchaser laid down. So, in a sense, we are quite free to do as we please, just as if we were our "own"......

This illusion underwrites the false assumptions that we make about our time, our talents, and our possessions that each of us sees as "mine." We may even feel noble when we give of our time and means, and  we are apt to be somewhat grumpy if anyone, especially a prophet, reminds us that all that we have belongs to God anyway......

these are hard sayings that bruise our pride. Unless, unless, through humility and obedience, we can transform feeling owned into a grand sense of belonging, and being purchased into gratitude for being rescued, and dependency into appreciation for being tutored by an omniscient God, which He does in order that we might become more dependable and have more independence and scope for service in the future.

February 5, 2011


Neal A. Maxwell
All These Things Shall Give Thee Experience
pg 2
God is never suprised....by unexpected arrivals in the spirit world because of unforeseen deaths. But we must always distinguish between God's being able to foresee and His causeing or desiring something to happen, a very important distinction!

The Veil Helps Us Use Our Agency!

Neal A Maxwell 
All These Things Shall Give Thee Experience
 pg 1
But mercifully the veil is there! It is fixed by the wisdom of God for our good. It is no use our being irritated with the Lord over that reality, for it is clearly a condition to which we agreed so long ago. Even when the veil is parted briefly, it will be on His terms, not ours. Such partings of the veil happen, of course, but in private settings and often with instructions or needed reassurances to expedite God's work and always to reward faith - not to moot faith. ....... We are cocooned, as it were in order that we might truly choose. Once, long ago, we chose to come to this very setting where we could choose. It was an irrevocable choice! And the veil is the guarantor that that choice will be honored.

February 3, 2011


The Dog In The Manger

A DOG lay in a manger, and by his growling and snapping prevented the oxen from eating the hay which had been placed for them. "What a selfish Dog!" said one of them to his companions; "he cannot eat the hay himself, and yet refuses to allow those to eat who can."

Aesop's Fables

Dream Big!

Your dream is not big enough if it doesn't scare you.

Matthias Schmelz 2008

September 19, 2010

How Can I Faith in this Scary World?

How Can I Have Faith When The World Seems So Scary?
Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin - Friend January 2007

* Always have faith, first of all, in our Heavenly Father and in His Beloved Son, Jesus Christ.
* Just move forward regardless of the world. As you read the scriptures, you will know what you should do.
*In every age we are faced with a choice. We can trust in our own strength, or we can journey to higher ground and come unto Christ.
* Keep busy in doing the right things. Peace and hope come from knowing the Lord and our Heavenly Father and following Their way of living.
*Sometimes the world appears dark. Sometimes our faith is tried. Yet we should not despair. We should never abandon our faith. We should not lose hope.
* Be of good cheer. Have faith and confidence. The Lord will not forsake you.

The Ordinary Things in Life....

Boyd K. Packer

"Find happiness in ordinary things, and

keep your sense of humor."

Why Would People Rally Against a False Claim?

Bruce R. McConkie
Pearl of Great Price Student Manual pg 57

Why should so many religionists unite against an unknown youth of no renoun or standing in the community?

Would the whole sectarian world shiver and shake and call for a sword if some other unknown 14 year old youth in an obscure frontier village should claim that he was visited by angels and that he saw the Lord?

The problem when Joseph Smith announced such a claim was that it was true and that Lucifer knew of its verity.....

Is not the persecution itself a witness of the reality of the First Vision? Or if it were not true, would the worldly wise and the intellectual religionists today devote their talents and means to defaming Joseph Smith and the work that bears his imprint?

What is it to anyone else what we believe unless they in their unbelief fear lest our doctrines are true and our practices may have divine approval.

June 20, 2010

Over, and Over, and Over AGAIN!?!

Teachings of Elder Henry B. Eyring:

"When the words of prophets seem repetitive, that should rivet our attention."

Let Go and Let God.....

From the book Simplify- A Guide to Caring for the Soul by Carolyn J. Rasmus

Nancy M. Christensen shared in an Ensign article that all of her life she had been worried about "what if?"..... As she grew.... she continued to have even more plaguing questions that resulted in anxiety attacks.... She became even more anxious when she realized such feelings were not "reasonable expectations for a mother of four young children."

Her answer came one fast Sunday.... As soon as the meetings were over, her 5 and 7 year old sons raced to see who could get home first. They each grabbed the door handle, trying to turn the knob of the locked door. When mom arrived home, she put the key in the lock, but because of the boys' strong grip, she couldn't turn the key. Out of her mouth tumbled the words, "If you would just let go for a minute, I could turn the key and let you in."

"As I said those words.... I imagined the Savior standing next to me, repeating my own words back to me. 'If you would just let go for a minute, I could turn the key for you. Let go. Let me help.' "

Gardening in the Gospel....

Elder Hugh B. Brown, member of the First Presidency and Quorum of the Twelve Apostles for many years told of purchasing a rundown farm. One day he noticed a currant bush that had grown more than 6 feet high. The bush had no blossoms and currants. Having been raised on a fruit farm, he recognized the problem, got his pruning shears, and went to work. He clipped it back until there was nothing left but stumps.

"It was just coming daylight, and I thought I saw on top of each of these little stumps what appeared to be a tear, and I thought the currant bush was crying.... And I looked at it and smiled and said, 'What are you crying about?' You know, I thought I heard that currant bush say this:

"I was making such wonderful growth. I was almost as big as the shade tree and the fruit tree that are inside the fence, and now you have cut me down. Every plant in the garden will look down on me because I didn't make what I should have made. How could you do this to me? I thought you were the gardener here."

"I said, 'Look, little currant bush, I am the gardener here, and I know what I want you to be. I didn't intend you to be a fruit tree or a shade tree. I want you to be a currant bush, and someday, little currant bush, when you are laden with fruit, you are going to say, 'Thank you, Mr. Gardener, for loving me enough to cut me down, Thank you, Mr. Gardener.'"

Christmas Poem

It's Christmas time at our house
And we're putting up the tree
I wish I could find one simple way
To remember Christ's gift to me.

Some little sign or symbol
To show friends stopping by.
The little babe was born one day
But He really came to die.

A symbol of his nail-pierced hands
The blood He shed for me...
What if I hung a simple nail
Upon my Christmas tree?

A crimson bow tied 'round the nail
Like His blood that flowed so free
To save each person from their sin
And redeem as for all eternity.

I know it was His love for us
That held Him to that "tree"
And when I see this simple nail
I know He died for me.

Author Unknown

March 21, 2010

Defining Mercy....

"My favorite 1828 dictionary defines mercy in a beautiful way: 'That benevolence, mildness or tenderness of heart which disposes a person to overlook injuries, or to treat an offender better than he deserves; the disposition that tempers justice, induces an injured person to forgive trespasses and injuries, and to forbear punishment, or inflict less than law or justice will warrant.' In this sense, there is perhaps no word in our language precisely synonymous with mercy."

Simplify - A Guide to Caring for the Soul
by Carolyn J. Rasmus pg 52



Fear leads to Anger
Anger leads to Hate
Hate leads to Suffering


Prayer Alone Is Not Enough....

Prayer Alone Is Not Enough
(Rabbi Jack Riemer)

We cannot only pray to You, O God, to end war;
For we know that You have made the world in such a way
That we must find the path to peace
Within ourselves and with our neighbors.

We cannot only pray to You, O God,
To end starvation;
For You have already given us the resources
With which to feed the entire world,
If we would only use them wisely.

We cannot only pray to You, O God,
To root out prejudice;
For You have already given us eyes
With which to see the good in all people,
If we would only use them rightly.

We cannot only pray to You, O god,
To end despair;
For You have already given us the power
To clear away slums and to give hope.
If we would only use power justly.

For You have already given us great minds
With which to search out cures and healings,
If we would only use them constructively.

Therefore, we pray to You instead, O God,
For strength, determination, and will power,
To do instead of only to pray,
To become instead of merely to wish,

For Your sake and for ours, speedily and soon,
That our land and world may be safe,
And that our lives may be blessed.

Ma the words that we pray, and the deeds that we do
Be acceptable before You, O Eternal,
Our Rock and our Redeemer.

A Funny One!

"I'm so unfamiliar with the gym I call it James."

Chi McBride on the Ellen Show

Changing Your Family

"Big changes in you will lead to even larger changes in your children."

James M. Harper "Creating Healthy Emotional Bonds In Families"

~Like a Child~

Ways to be Like a Child

When children try to reach something on a high shelf without help they often make a mess or break something. When we as parents find out we say something like "why didn't you just ask me for help" or "I would've helped you if you had just asked." Like us, ,our Heavenly Father wants to help if we will just ask Him.

January 25, 2010

"Big Boys Don't Cry"

"Growing Young"

by Greg Simpson

I've gone so far from my home
Seen the world and I have known
So many secrets
I wish now I did not know
'Cause they have crept into my heart
They have left it cold and dark and bleeding
Bleeding and falling apart

And ev'ry body used to tell me,
"Big boys don't cry"
Well I've been around enough
To know that was a lie
It held back the tears
In the eyes of a thousand prodigal sons
Well we are children no more
We have sinned and grown old
And our Father still waits
And He watches down the road
To see His crying boys
Come running back to his arms
And be growing young

I've seen silver turn to dross
Seen the very best there ever was
And I tell you
It ain't worth what it costs
I remember my Father's house
What I wouldn't give right now
Just to see Him
And hear Him tell me
That He loves me so much


And when I thought that I was all alone
It was Your voice I heard calling me back home
And I wonder now, Lord
What it was that made me wait so long
And what kept You waiting for me all that time
Was Your love stronger than my foolish pride
Will You take me back, now
Take me back and let me be Your child

'Cause I've been broken now
I've been saved
I've learned to cry
And I've learned to pray
And I'm learning
Learning even I can be changed


And be growing young

October 18, 2009

It's the Hard-Knock Life.....

"Let's quit viewing life as a long, hard, uphill ride

to the ultimate destination of heaven.

I'm sure heaven will be wonderful,

but so is life right now."

-Janene Wolsey Baadsgaard

Life's Challenge!

"Our challenge is to learn and not be defeated by the package life

hands us or by our attitude about that package."

-Norma B. Ashton

Spiritual Learning

“To keep spiritual learning in its proper place, we will have to make some hard choices of how we use our time. But there should never be a conscious choice to let the spiritual become secondary. Never. That will lead to tragedy. Remember, you are interested in education, not just for mortal life but for eternal life. When you see that reality clearly, you will put spiritual learning first and yet not slight the secular learning. In fact, you will work harder at your secular learning than you would without that spiritual vision.”

Henry B. Eyring, “Real-Life Education,” New Era, Apr. 2009, 5

The Man's Responsibility.....

"The man presides to assure order, but with that comes the burden of

responsibility . . . The call to preside is a call to serve. It is a

call of responsibility to assure that all is done in righteousness and

that order prevails."

-Sherrie Johnson

Youth ~ Hungry for Things of the Spirit

“President [J. Reuben] Clark described youth as ‘hungry for things of the Spirit [and] eager to learn the gospel.’ He said: ‘They want it straight, undiluted. They want to know . . . about our beliefs; they want to gain testimonies of their truth. They are not now doubters but inquirers, seekers after truth.’”

Boyd K. Packer “Counsel to Young Men,” Ensign, May 2009, 50

Family Experiences

Family Experiences Provide Important Development Opportunities

“Now is the time for each of us to work toward our personal conversion, toward becoming what our Heavenly Father desires us to become. As we do so, we should remember that our family relationships—even more than our Church callings—are the setting in which the most important part of that development can occur. The conversion we must achieve requires us to be a good husband and father or a good wife and mother. Being a successful Church leader is not enough. Exaltation is an eternal family experience, and it is our mortal family experiences that are best suited to prepare us for it.”

Dallin H. Oaks, “The Challenge to Become,” Liahona, Jan. 2001, 41

~ Self-Control ~

"Self-control isn't just about temper . . . Self-control is about

keeping command of yourself in general. It takes self-control to

resist the seduction of passing impulse."

-Beppie Harrison

A More Righteousness Generation....

“With all my heart I hope and pray that you will be wise enough to learn the lessons of the past. You don’t have to spend time as a Laman or a Lemuel in order to know that it’s much better to be a Nephi or a Jacob. You don’t have to follow the path of Cain or Gadianton in order to realize that ‘wickedness never was happiness’ (Alma 41:10).”

M. Russell Ballard, “Learning the Lessons of the Past,” Ensign, May 2009, 33

Attain Eternal Life with Our Families

“It is . . . important that we be loving and kind to members of our own faith, regardless of their level of commitment or activity. The Savior has made it clear that we are not to judge each other (see Luke 6:37). This is especially true of members of our own families. Our obligation is to love and teach and never give up. The Lord has made salvation ‘free for all men’ but has ‘commanded his people that they should persuade all men to repentance’ (2 Nephi 26:27).”

Quentin L. Cook, “Our Father’s Plan—Big Enough for All His Children,” Ensign, May 2009, 37

September 17, 2009

Just Try

Don't be afraid to fail, be afraid not to try.
- Michael Jordan

September 10, 2009


"We cannot repent for someone else.
But we can forgive someone else, refusing to hold hostage those whom the Lord seeks to set free!"

-Neal A. Maxwell

August 12, 2009

You Can Succeed!

Dictionary is the only place that success comes before work. Hard work is the price we must pay for success. I think you can accomplish anything if you're willing to pay the price.

~ Vince Lombardi

April 26, 2009

"This Is My Nature?" I Think Not!!!

President George Q. Cannon taught:
“If any of us are imperfect, it is our duty to pray for the gift that will make us perfect. Have I imperfections? I am full of them. What is my duty? To pray to God to give me the gifts that will correct these imperfections. If I am an angry man, it is my duty to pray for charity, which suffereth long and is kind. Am I an envious man? It is my duty to seek for charity, which envieth not. So with all the gifts of the Gospel. They are intended for this purpose. No man ought to say, ‘Oh, I cannot help this; it is my nature.’ He is not justified in it, for the reason that God has promised to give strength to correct these things, and to give gifts that will eradicate them” (Millennial Star, 23 Apr. 1894, 260).